Jamie's 18th @ Pups

Here's Jamie near the old old tree without it's yellow ribbon LOL


Here's the Cake Liza made for Jamie - Chocolate Cake mmmm yum!




Here's Brook helping Spencie and Brock sweep up all the leaves around Pups driveway.





Here's the Family Shot that someone was so greatful to inform Brook she isn't family of which shattered her, for the afternoon. As she looks up to these people in this photo and believe's because her mother is with Matthew that she is also known as family. Well this isn;t the case with his mum and she made it clear to her that day which hurt brook to know this.


I learnt long ago when it comes to kids not to mention these kinds of things in front of them as it shatters them in the long run. As my daughter Christine hates me because of this kind of thing which was that my husband told her that she doesn't belong to him and she would never ever be family it cut her deep down and she has never recovered from it. Therefore gives me grife every time she is with me.
Which i had always promised to never put myself in that suitutation again, well i have failed as my daughter had heard what she shouldn't have i would hate to know what effect this will take on my life and her's now. As she is already giving me nothing but grife with back chatting trying to be mum role and god knows what else. Which i can't stop as long as someone has made her feel this way. She made a point with me the other day that Matt used to play with her and her brother all the time but now doesn't. He says it's because of the way they act, I say they are only kids. They will treat you as you would like to be treated ........Only he doesn't apply this therefore kids don't either. So it's a loopy loop !